S1E12 queer sex tips

EPISODE 12

About the Episode

What if everything you thought you knew about sex was just one version of the story?

In this episode, Nadège is joined by author and activist Lucie Fielding, whose groundbreaking work on trans sex is reshaping how we think about pleasure, bodies, and desire. Together, these two scholars explore how queering sex (i.e. breaking free from ideas of what sex should be) can make intimacy more exciting, fulfilling, and inclusive for everyone.

Here are three highlights from the episode:

#1. The real reason why the traditional sex script limits your pleasure
#2. How renaming body parts can transform intimacy
#3. What “muffing” is and why you might want to try it

If you’ve ever felt like sex was supposed to look a certain way, this episode will give you permission to rewrite the rules.

Show Notes

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Links to resources mentioned in this episode:

Amber L Hollibaugh

Douglas Crimp

How to Have Promiscuity in an Epidemic

Sigmund Freud

Sigmund Freud: Three Essays on the Theory of Sexuality

Mira Bellwether

F*cking Trans Women

Transcript

Transcript will be available when the episode airs.

BEHIND THE POD

a love letter from Nadège

Dear listener,

Over 10 years ago I became a sex scholar because I didn't like sex.

Intimacy felt painful or it made me anxious - which quickly created an unbearable life. I wanted to experience pleasure, connection, and orgasm. So I studied everything I could: psychology, history, and science all through the lens of sex.

Today, I'm passionate about sharing this knowledge because it changed my life. I realized that the key to enjoying sex boiled down to three things. I enjoyed sex once I knew how to relax. I felt safe with sex when I knew all the facts. And I felt sexually empowered when I normalized talking about sex.

This podcast was created to help you find your version of sexual empowerment. In order to help you do that, I'm going to pass on everything I know to you. I don't know what small tidbit of information will be the key to changing your life, but I know that by sharing this information sex positivity will find it's way to you.

So, enjoy these episodes filled with spicy knowledge and experts in my industry who can transform your future. I hope this podcast leaves you with hope, intelligence, and an open heart.

Big hugs,

Nadège

Pleasure Science Podcast: Episode 12

RETHINK HOW YOU F*CK WITH QUEER SEX TIPS